I knew that if I clicked, I would be miserably sucked. <3. And the beauty with having a relationship with God is that He will not allow you to keep on sinning. It was everything in the world that I thought made me the kind of person I want to be. I was obsessed with the hip-hop boyband, Big Bang. Blessings, Maddie. hehe. yes thanks im a chrisian and am lost in this world full of kpop i was intruduced to kpop in 3rd grade so its hard to get rid of it hopefully this will help others cuase it helped me thanks alot:). This world cant satisfy me. There are many singles out there who are good-hearted people just looking to find a life mate or someone to love honestly, but end up alone simply because of what Kpop has done to the Asian dating scene. I’m missing out on my true calling and my own life, because I’m concentrating so much on BTS/ being someone else. I may or may not have written a 10 verse song which is loosely about one of them and that’s how I’ve learned guitar over the past year and practiced. But, it happens. Going to a fan meeting for the opportunity to meet your favorite idols face-to-face is every K-pop fan’s dream. Because of the contradictory nature of KPop, fans would rather ship two idols of the same sex than boy-girl pairs. I am an Army I like BTS. I have found a accountability/discipler partner but I do talk outside of her too. They are created in God’s image and like us, are normal human beings (the sole difference being that they are public figures) and have failings. Aside from asking for God’s help to curb our obsession, we can take other practical steps to guard our hearts. Hi, first off I would like to thank you so much for your testimony on this topic. Also, instead of listening to BTS getting ready for school (if you still do go to school and listen to BTS in the morning) listen to a sermon preaching (I recommend Steven Furtick). However, contrary to what the commenters say, being a new fan isn't so bad. Like fake love or blood sweat and tears? If they don’t have a high paying job that offers financial security to a prospective bride, then they’re not worthy of her love. I’ve been heavily involved in the world of Kpop for about five years now, and in my experience the stages of being a fan (or descent into madness) can be roughly divided into four stages that generally capture the Kpop experience. (He’s gone away from God but he’s in my daily prayer list- please pray for him if you can) The other brother is serving as a film missionary in Japan but has also worked on other projects such as an MV for a Japanese boyband who often cover – of all things – Kpop. I can’t help myself but to constantly check on Wanna One in social media (Instagram, Twitter) and like every post. I believe that one day, God will help me break free from my unhealthy appetite for kdramas. So what was it that drew me deeper and deeper, curiouser and curiouser specifically into this group? But I really like the advise this article gave me, to pray for BTS so that one day I can see them in heaven :)). I’m just happy I found this blog. Wow! This made me mourn all the more. Hi. -‭‭Acts‬ ‭17:28‬‬. It was a guilt-free time of enjoying Kpop without any lust or idolization. I am really glad to see these much people came back to God..but wat my point is that we shouldnt think about ourselves and be happy for relieving from sin but then we should definitly pray for everyone of them who are addicted like us how we were before..Because God really wants us to do that..when u pray daily for the addicted fans and idols i really hope that atleast one soul in the world will realize their sins and find a way to come back to God..trust me if u do so Our Father will definitly be proud of u and will always be with u. I feel like you need to pray really hard about it and let God guide you. In 2007, a friend of mine introduced me to the world of K-Pop and it changed my life—I was in my third year in high school then. And I would find myself reading erotic fiction about him and myself as the reader. Your sister in Christ I hope in your case will support you like how it should be. Try to have more variety in your life, some hobbies not related to Korea! If His Spirit is in you, you will not live in sin. Also they are in both subtle and obvious ways steeped in the bandwagon of pushing a certain prevalent sexually immoral agenda and dragging many vulnerable young people along. They are all very magnetic personalities: my biases are J-Hope and RM. In light of this, let’s pray for the stars we like, that they would come to know God, reflect His beauty and goodness in and through their lives so that others would see and come to know God personally. I mean these guys sounded fun and genuine… Fettuccine introduced me to fan theories of deeply interwoven plots through symbolism between the music videos which intrigued me further. I pray that we love them as how we are called to by Jesus, but not to the extent of putting them above The Lord. I got hooked. I’m so ashamed. K, it would be great if you could find someone in your community to share this with. Just the thought of stopping produced a physical pain in my chest. Now, this is between me and God (i.e. In Korea, fraternal skinship, care for physical appearance (fashion and makeup) and greater manifestation of emotion than what we are used to are just normal parts of being a man. A massive snare was tumblr, asianfanfics, and fanfics in general. This is a very late reply but I wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this. I got a second piercing in both my ears recently. I would watch their music videos, listen to their songs, play their songs on piano, have their photos on my phone, and scour anything Kpop/Korea/Korean related. I seem to break them every time. This might just be a new wave where I fast for a period and then relapse. You never know what can happen until you try. I was addicted to secular music and sexual posts, but my dear it is possible. While others view Kpop fans as adolescent, immature teenagers with absolutely no self-control, the fact of the matter is that a large majority of international fans (specifically) range in age between their late 20’s to early 40’s, and have a strong sense of sincere respect and interest in Korean men, culture and history. But, I am scared to ignore her because she actually don’t have many friends and it concerns me if I just leave her like that. I thank the Lord for leading me here. Pray for me. Everyday I’d get messages from her about links to meme videos and what not and I fell out of it because of that and that’s when I got into exo something she wasn’t into and it would be my own thing since between the two I knew them most. so I searched everything about them to get back to that fandom feels. The idols just looked so pretty and perfect. I was obsessed about EXO, too––to the point where I wrote fanfiction and stories about them. I realized that I needed to stop and keep the seven boys as a hobby. I don’t really have anyone to talk about this with because I have no Christian kpop friends so if it’s possible to be contacted my email’s here : xenon181217@gmail.com. I started doing my own research on satanic symbols and colours that they use, and most, if not all, are used in all K-pop music videos, and their song lyrics are spreading lies. And I have been putting over God, who is supposed to be the Lord of my life. God spoke to me through your article. Hi, I am 13 years old, and I am a hardcore EXO-L. I am also devoting my time in other things like drawing, design, my pets, and other stuff. In hindsight, this was really messed up and I wish I could go back and dismantle this mindset l had. I used to like KPop a whole lot, but then that died down.